Uma, I hope, would like to share with me to wish you all a
VERY HAPPY, LOVING, WARM, and SEXY NEW YEAR
Innocent Revelator
Friday, December 31, 2010
Monday, November 22, 2010
Monday, August 23, 2010
Onam greetings
Uma ... She's keeping mum. I've nothing to say, but to wish her good luck.
But I am sure she must be chewing those Onam days she spent with me. How can she forget them ? She can't be that cruel.. I believe.
For me, those memories give me the feel of ONAM. And nothing else. Another unfavourable situation is that Pai is not with me this time for Onam. He, for the last two years, have been my driving force, in my personal life. But, he too is away now. He shifted back to his home town recently. Ionia too is not of any assistance to me these days. She has to take care of her mother (who is sick now, and needs full time assistance). But Ionia is kind enough to visit me occasionally. And she showers me a bit pleasureful moments at those occasions.
In the absence of any loved ones, I didn't make any ONAM purchase. And so... no Onakkody !
But for the couple of persons working for me in my office, I gave them cash presents. That's all I have in my mind.
I wish UMA a very happy ONAM.
And let me also wish YOU all a happy Onam. ഓണാശംസകള് എല്ലാവര്ക്കും
But I am sure she must be chewing those Onam days she spent with me. How can she forget them ? She can't be that cruel.. I believe.
For me, those memories give me the feel of ONAM. And nothing else. Another unfavourable situation is that Pai is not with me this time for Onam. He, for the last two years, have been my driving force, in my personal life. But, he too is away now. He shifted back to his home town recently. Ionia too is not of any assistance to me these days. She has to take care of her mother (who is sick now, and needs full time assistance). But Ionia is kind enough to visit me occasionally. And she showers me a bit pleasureful moments at those occasions.
In the absence of any loved ones, I didn't make any ONAM purchase. And so... no Onakkody !
But for the couple of persons working for me in my office, I gave them cash presents. That's all I have in my mind.
I wish UMA a very happy ONAM.
And let me also wish YOU all a happy Onam. ഓണാശംസകള് എല്ലാവര്ക്കും
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Igniting the desires
Uma ! Where is she ?
If any of you ask me that question, yes... I can answer that. But I wonder ... and realise that I failed to understand women. My motivator is away. Physically and mentally. Then, how can I write ?
I know I am sleeping. Uma is not here to wake me up. Ionia (you may remember) too could not keep the fire. The fire in me is buried in the ashes of my memories. I have to ignite that up ... again !
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Saturday, April 3, 2010
The Male Brain - Men are obsessed with sex, hide their emotions, and cheat
Uma once asked me, "... when you meet a lady, where do you look first ?". The question was not any surprise to me. I had a clear and precise answer, as I have analysed this issue long ago. My answer to Uma on this question , however was complex. Instead of a straight answer, I replied :
'Ask me the second question ... where do you look at then ?'.
She fired me with "Mamma, you always are shrewd ... you never give me a straight answer. See, now to my question, you posed a second .. Now, tell me where do you look at her, when you meet a female ?"
She made the scope of the question a bit broader. I decided to me honest, and to the point. I said, "...face..".
"Then ? " Uma posed next.
"Breast ! " I said.
She was too happy in my honest answer. This made her start explaining her experiences ( and those knowledge from mother and other close friends).
On her pausing ( I didn't dare to stop her !) I said .."but there's always a filter... a psychological filter... to screen off some ... The filter works right at the beginning.... that's when you meet..".
Uma was curious .. she sharpened the ears to me.
"When I meet some female, young or old, my mental filter warns me how to and where to look. By default, the eyes go on to her face... But the problem is the next ... if not very closely related , the eyes jump to her breast.... I can't resist that .. it just happens.." I said.
Uma, with a moment's pause said "maammaa.. that's normal ... there's nothing unusual. All men are like that. They stare at the breasts ... right at the first moment someone sees me..".
"That's nature's rule .. " I became a philosopher.
"but... do you relish that look ? " I posed a further query to her.
"Yes... Yes.. certainly ... all women enjoy that ..." she was quick to respond.
"The why some ladies fire you with the fire in their eyes and face ? "... I asked.
"That's not honest ... it's a pretention..." Uma said in her soft tones.
"That's only a defensive action ... expression to stop at that limit.." . Uma went on to say.." it's feminine to be seen .. so females always show.. they like to be seen by men ... but they are scared of the society , to cross any limits.. "
That's a natures rule, I told myself.
YOU may wonder, why I started all this "lost" conversations ? The point is that I feel relaxed, when I read that a lady psychologist has proved that "men are obcessed with sex". Instead of writing any more blah..blah... let me show you what Yahoo reported today.
London
She says: "The best advice I have for women is make peace with the male brain. Let men be men."
Some of the other findings in the expert's new book Male Brain: A Breakthrough Understanding Of How Men And Boys Think are:
1 Men really are sex-crazed
The brain's part inked to sexual pursuit is two-and-a-half times larger in males than females.
2 They're programmed to perv
The testosterone drives what Louann calls the "man trance" - a glazed-eye stare at breasts. She says: "I wish I could say that men can stop themselves from entering this trance. But the truth is, they can't."
3 Men want more partners
According to the book, men want an average of 14 sexual partners in their lifetime. Women want one or two.
Louann says: "It's postcoital narcolepsy. During orgasm, males release a huge amount of oxytocin in their brains, and it is very sedating. It's not that he doesn't love you."
4 Men lie more about sex
Biologically speaking, men are more comfortable lying to the opposite sex.
5 Foreplay round the clock
In case of women, foreplay is everything that happens in the 24 hours before intercourse. For men it's what happens three minutes before entry
Louann says: "The male brain's initial emotional reaction can be stronger than the female. But within 2.5 seconds his face changes to hide the emotion, or even reverse it."
The expert doesn't reckon her book justifies bad behaviour. She says: "This is not giving men an excuse to rape and pillage. But men do have a right to give voice to their biological predisposition and have it come in to the dialogue." (ANI)
And here is what Wiki says about the author : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Louann_BrizendineLouann Brizendine M.D., is a neuropsychiatrist and the author of The Female Brain which was published by Morgan Road Books in 2006.
Dr. Brizendine is an expert in women's moods and hormones. Her academic credentials include completing her degree in Neurobiology at UC Berkeley, attending Yale School of Medicine and completing a residency in Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School in Psychiatry. She is board certified in Psychiatry and Neurology and is an endowed clinical professor. She joined the faculty ofUCSF Medical School
In 1994, she founded the UCSF Women's Mood and Hormone Clinic[1]and continues to serve as its director. The Women's Mood and Hormone Clinic is a psychiatric clinic designed to assess and treat women of all ages experiencing disruption of mood, energy, anxiety, sexual function and well-being due to hormonal influences on the brain. Dr. Brizendine also treats couples in the clinic.
Additionally, Brizendine teaches courses to medical students, residents and other physicians throughout the country addressing the topics of the brain effects of hormones, mood disorders, anxiety problems and sexual interest changes due to hormones.
'Ask me the second question ... where do you look at then ?'.
She fired me with "Mamma, you always are shrewd ... you never give me a straight answer. See, now to my question, you posed a second .. Now, tell me where do you look at her, when you meet a female ?"
She made the scope of the question a bit broader. I decided to me honest, and to the point. I said, "...face..".
"Then ? " Uma posed next.
"Breast ! " I said.
She was too happy in my honest answer. This made her start explaining her experiences ( and those knowledge from mother and other close friends).
On her pausing ( I didn't dare to stop her !) I said .."but there's always a filter... a psychological filter... to screen off some ... The filter works right at the beginning.... that's when you meet..".
Uma was curious .. she sharpened the ears to me.
"When I meet some female, young or old, my mental filter warns me how to and where to look. By default, the eyes go on to her face... But the problem is the next ... if not very closely related , the eyes jump to her breast.... I can't resist that .. it just happens.." I said.
Uma, with a moment's pause said "maammaa.. that's normal ... there's nothing unusual. All men are like that. They stare at the breasts ... right at the first moment someone sees me..".
"That's nature's rule .. " I became a philosopher.
"but... do you relish that look ? " I posed a further query to her.
"Yes... Yes.. certainly ... all women enjoy that ..." she was quick to respond.
"The why some ladies fire you with the fire in their eyes and face ? "... I asked.
"That's not honest ... it's a pretention..." Uma said in her soft tones.
"That's only a defensive action ... expression to stop at that limit.." . Uma went on to say.." it's feminine to be seen .. so females always show.. they like to be seen by men ... but they are scared of the society , to cross any limits.. "
That's a natures rule, I told myself.
YOU may wonder, why I started all this "lost" conversations ? The point is that I feel relaxed, when I read that a lady psychologist has proved that "men are obcessed with sex". Instead of writing any more blah..blah... let me show you what Yahoo reported today.
It's official: Men are obsessed with sex, hide their emotions, and cheat
Thu, Apr 1 12:25 PM
She says: "The best advice I have for women is make peace with the male brain. Let men be men."
Some of the other findings in the expert's new book Male Brain: A Breakthrough Understanding Of How Men And Boys Think are:
1 Men really are sex-crazed
The brain's part inked to sexual pursuit is two-and-a-half times larger in males than females.
2 They're programmed to perv
The testosterone drives what Louann calls the "man trance" - a glazed-eye stare at breasts. She says: "I wish I could say that men can stop themselves from entering this trance. But the truth is, they can't."
3 Men want more partners
According to the book, men want an average of 14 sexual partners in their lifetime. Women want one or two.
Louann says: "It's postcoital narcolepsy. During orgasm, males release a huge amount of oxytocin in their brains, and it is very sedating. It's not that he doesn't love you."
4 Men lie more about sex
Biologically speaking, men are more comfortable lying to the opposite sex.
5 Foreplay round the clock
In case of women, foreplay is everything that happens in the 24 hours before intercourse. For men it's what happens three minutes before entry
Louann says: "The male brain's initial emotional reaction can be stronger than the female. But within 2.5 seconds his face changes to hide the emotion, or even reverse it."
The expert doesn't reckon her book justifies bad behaviour. She says: "This is not giving men an excuse to rape and pillage. But men do have a right to give voice to their biological predisposition and have it come in to the dialogue." (ANI)
Here is the link to the author : http://www.louannbrizendine.com/
Dr. Brizendine is an expert in women's moods and hormones. Her academic credentials include completing her degree in Neurobiology at UC Berkeley, attending Yale School of Medicine and completing a residency in Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School in Psychiatry. She is board certified in Psychiatry and Neurology and is an endowed clinical professor. She joined the faculty of
In 1994, she founded the UCSF Women's Mood and Hormone Clinic[1]and continues to serve as its director. The Women's Mood and Hormone Clinic is a psychiatric clinic designed to assess and treat women of all ages experiencing disruption of mood, energy, anxiety, sexual function and well-being due to hormonal influences on the brain. Dr. Brizendine also treats couples in the clinic.
Additionally, Brizendine teaches courses to medical students, residents and other physicians throughout the country addressing the topics of the brain effects of hormones, mood disorders, anxiety problems and sexual interest changes due to hormones.
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Gifting self
Uma's absence makes me dull. That's true . But as you could sense, that can't make me mad. I hope I told you a few weeks back that I am looking for new relationships to buildup (no... sustain) my life. And, success is not always in our stride. Failures do happen. But the right attitude is to take them all positively, as stepping stone to success. That's what I do now.
My recent attempts to build new relationships are not really fruitful. What I had in my arms length have proved to be not the right ones. May be they think different and their motives are different. 'Money only' for some of them. That.. anyway is not digestible to me. So I skip them off and look for neweravenues.
While i am driving my desires, kindly keep coming and look for my earlier experiences.
But one thing is sure. It's a closed chapter with Uma. So what I have been gifting her, and what she has been to me, now turns different. I am gifting myself. Let me see if someone comes down to receive my gifts !
My recent attempts to build new relationships are not really fruitful. What I had in my arms length have proved to be not the right ones. May be they think different and their motives are different. 'Money only' for some of them. That.. anyway is not digestible to me. So I skip them off and look for neweravenues.
While i am driving my desires, kindly keep coming and look for my earlier experiences.
But one thing is sure. It's a closed chapter with Uma. So what I have been gifting her, and what she has been to me, now turns different. I am gifting myself. Let me see if someone comes down to receive my gifts !
Saturday, February 13, 2010
A gift for someone I love, on Valentine's day
Uma's absence compels me to think so .. To whom should I gift on Valentines day ? Last year, I gave her a nice gift. One she would never forget. That's what I thought. But she coolly did forget all those. Atleast, she acts as if all is forgotten. Is that how all women behave ?
I know the answer to that question. The answer is .. "No ". But, why did she ? Or, why is she so ? I do not know the answer to this .
Since I don't wish anything bad for her, I think now it's time for me to write off the memoirs. But how do I ? I still am with the warmth of the thrilling moments she shared with me. May God bless her.. at all times.
I know the answer to that question. The answer is .. "No ". But, why did she ? Or, why is she so ? I do not know the answer to this .
Since I don't wish anything bad for her, I think now it's time for me to write off the memoirs. But how do I ? I still am with the warmth of the thrilling moments she shared with me. May God bless her.. at all times.
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Fashion trends - Right to be nude
Uma, as you know, is not with me these days. That makes me dull, quite gloomy and tiresome. So, I decided to make a travel. To be away from all my routines. So, I started south, for a pilgrimage (kind of !). I went to the southern most spot ... more of a tourist spot. I had a different experience. Instead of a peaceful time, I had it different. It is certainly my naughty eyes that entertained me... but the scenes made me tense too.
As usual, I have been watching people. How they look... move.. and respond !
All the more, last week I happened to read an article on the cultural shift in garments, and how the history made all that changes.
This would have prompted me to be very keen and critic on the garments the girls wear.
Yes.. I could see fantastic ones. But some of them are really interesting, and to me now, hilarious too !
Why I show you the snaps here, is that Uma would have certainly asked me to post them here. She likes unique ones. This onje is that.
How the Churidar designs have progressed. (How it's progressing !). Remember, I told you once... Fasion tends to approach nudity. These snaps certify that.
The latest in Churidar .. from North India. May be the southern India is yet to make headway in this direction.
The one below exceeds limits, though we may like to enjoy eroticism and nudity. But nudity in public .. this order !
As usual, I have been watching people. How they look... move.. and respond !
All the more, last week I happened to read an article on the cultural shift in garments, and how the history made all that changes.
This would have prompted me to be very keen and critic on the garments the girls wear.
Yes.. I could see fantastic ones. But some of them are really interesting, and to me now, hilarious too !
Why I show you the snaps here, is that Uma would have certainly asked me to post them here. She likes unique ones. This onje is that.
How the Churidar designs have progressed. (How it's progressing !). Remember, I told you once... Fasion tends to approach nudity. These snaps certify that.
The latest in Churidar .. from North India. May be the southern India is yet to make headway in this direction.
The one below exceeds limits, though we may like to enjoy eroticism and nudity. But nudity in public .. this order !
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